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Sexual Intercourse

Some women experience discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse, but this will usually improve with time. Your body will need time to heal, especially if you had a difficult birth or tearing. 

Most providers recommend waiting until the 6 week postpartum checkup before considering having sexual intercourse. Many women prefer to wait longer. 

  • Pain with sex after childbirth
    • 86% of first time moms experience pain the first time that they have vaginal sex after giving birth. This percent decreases with time, from 45% at 3 months postpartum to 23% at 18 months postpartum.
    • Only 10% of those who reported pain had severe pain.
    • Vaginal estrogen may be an option for vaginal dryness.
    • Pelvic floor physical therapy can also be an option if other causes have been ruled out and/or have tried other treatments and have not been helpful. 
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